After The O&V Summer Wedding 2010

The Summer of 2010 was full of surprises in many good ways. Vic and I had our Wedding Ceremony, and we were surrounded by amazing people that we consider friends. The best part is how everyone was so respectful and supporting of our union, not to mention those friends and family who came out of town to support this great day! Of course just like any wedding there were things here and there that needed to be fixed or fell apart, but hey what wedding goes without a few miss happens. What was truly important was remembering that Vic and I were ready to just be with each other for the rest of our lives. Ready to be happy with each other, ready to get mad, and make-up(make out) after our disagreements, ready to build a home together and ready to take over the world together! Never was there a doubt in our minds that we wanted each other, but what there was is miss communication, and sometimes being in a relationship we have remember that communication even when you do not agree is important. Many people in the world sit there and work extremely hard to analyze relationships by writing a book or seeing a therapist. Yeah, this is all good, but these are just tools and in the end it is the two people in a relationship that need to utilize these tools and apply them to their personal relationship to make them work. Everyone is unique and everyone can be the same, or even follow the same pattern in relationships. This is because we are creatures of habits. Some of us have to awaken to realize that a relationship is an investment of life, and you have to invest time, understanding, happiness, sadness, anger, and create memories. People have asked both Vic and I 'if marriage life feels different?' Well, for me it does, because you begin to realize how now it is not about the insecurity of a relationship, but how do we reach all our goals united as one? Things have been really great for Vic and I after the wedding. We have learned to be a lot more selfish with our time, and how we utilize our day. Just an advice, it is OK to say no because you need time to be with your partner, and it is OK to be selfish with your lover, boyfriend, husband, best friend, and enjoy quality time together. Vic and I have date night one or two times a week no matter what, just to block the world away, and focus on us. This works for us and maybe you and your other half should think, "what would work for us, just to get away from the world?"